I’m just curious. What makes you read my blogs? Can you relate to what I write? Do you see yourself in the stories and experience I share? Do the books that I review interest you? What brings you back to my blog? I’m super glad that you visit my blog. Im just curious that’s all.

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What are you doing?:

What are you doing today to better yourself? Are you still trying to figure out how to get rest, exercise and do work around the house? How about taking some time each day to focus on yourself. Take a bath and let the family know it’s your time and not to disturb you. At lunch go for a short walk to clear your mind. Grab a book at read for five minutes. You have to focus in yourself sometimes. The world and your family will function a lot better with a healthy you. Let’s take time out for ourselves this week.

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Your Peace:

As we go into this three day weekend. I just want you to remember no matter what you’re going through. Always protect your peace. I use to let so many things and people get under my skin. But I have learned to protect what is so important to me. Your peace of mind is so important. Have a great weekend.

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So I have a question. For those who have taken the COVID vaccine did you have any reactions? I’m wanting to get the vaccine but I’m scared, to be honest. I have some health issues and I have talked to my doctors about it and they say that the benefits outweigh the risk. But I have been noticing that the news isn’t telling the whole story regarding the vaccine also. I know some people who have taken it and different things have to happen to them. It’s rare the doctors said but still, I feel like people should know all the facts.

Doing the work:

This year has been super crazy for me. But I’m working on myself and bettering me. But while I’m doing the work I have also noticed my husband doing the work on himself as well. Our communication, friendship and love for one another has went to another level. Im so grateful to have someone who wants to better himself. We all go through seasons in life. And if you’re not changing then you’re staying the same. Trust me when I say this journey is amazing. And to be doing it with my husband is the icing on the cake. Im learning to do so many things differently and better. Im glad to be doing this journey with someone amazing.

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Today is the start of a new week. Never let anyone dim your light. Let your light shine bright. If other’s don’t like it then they can wear sunglasses to block your shine. But never dim your light for anyone.

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Change is beautiful:

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I had to learn what I was willing to change for myself to move forward. It wasn’t about what I was willing to change for someone else but for myself. What do I want and how am I going to make that happen. One lesson that I learned was that I needed to make up my mind and just do it. Each morning when I wake up I need to be intentional with what I was willing to change and do for myself. One thing that I started saying to myself is that I love you and will always believe in you. I never really considered talking to myself like this because I didn’t understand what the point was. But now I do. Staying positive things to myself and setting boundaries within myself have been so helpful. I have been reading blogs about people not loving themselves and how they want to change. Well, I don’t have all the answers but I do know that one step at a time is all that it takes to make a change in your life. Change for yourself not other people.

Taking me back:

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I have never felt like I should concentrate solely on myself because I felt like that was selfish. But let me tell you it’s not selfish at all. And maybe I should get more selfish with myself honestly. But I’m learning to love the hell out of myself. I feel like I have more pep in my step. This girl is beautiful, bold, and full of life. I haven’t felt this way since I was a junior in high school. It took me a long time to get here and I refuse to go back. I’m not about to let anyone take me back to doubting myself ever again. So world watch out this lady is making moves and holding her head high. I have dreams and goals that I’m wanting to accomplish. I have been everything to everyone else but myself and now it’s my turn. Love yourself and never let anyone take that away from you. You are worth more than you think.