Lesson’s:

This week has been full of lessons for me. So it’s time to do a heart check. See when you want something speak up and let the other person know. They can’t read your mind at all. If you say you’re going to do something then do it and don’t put it off. And last but not least be intentional with your time. I have been married for almost 13 years and for some reason I feel like my husband is supposed to be able to read my mind about the things that are bothering me and what I want. Well, that’s not the case and hasn’t ever been the case. I need to let him know what I want and what’s wrong with me. This is an area that I need some work on. And usually, when I say that I’m going to do something I do it that day or the next. Well, this week I just didn’t feel like doing anything extra so I keep putting things off. But that only made things worse. So now if I don’t want to do something I just say so. I need to use no in my vocabulary way more. And being intentional with your time is important. Sometimes you get so used to doing the say things all the time that you just get stuck in this pattern. So yesterday my husband and I had intentional quality time together. There was no TV we just talked and enjoyed each other’s time. I had some questions that I put in a jar and we each pulled out a slip of paper and answered the questions. That gave us a better understanding of things we wanted to know on a deeper level. Not all the questions were serious but it was nice seeing what we would both say. I’m learning so many valuable lessons that I thought I had mastered, only to realize I may never master them at all. Which is fine with me as long as I can continue to learn these valuable lessons then I’m good.