Who are you really? Who do people see when they talk to you? Well, let me be honest with you a minute. I use to be that person who people thought that I had it all together. But I didn’t. I would be the person that would give advice and suggestions to others but never had anyone to do that for me. Why not? Because I never let anyone in. I was and still am the type of person who would test and see if what I told you would stay between us. I would just say something random and see if it would spread. I didn’t have many female friends because I didn’t trust them. And the female friends that I do have I don’t take them for granted. But now I’m done with the double life because I love the person that I’m growing to be. I have allowed myself time and space to work and focus on myself and my issues. I’m great at being there for others and now I’m working on letting others be there for me. Well, a select few anyway. I know that there are so many people walking around living this double life as I did. It’s great to be there for others but it’s also nice to have others there for you also. Even though I’m selective with telling my deep secrets I am open to telling my story and experiences with others when needed. I love that I can blog and tell my story and know that it’s okay to be open. You never know who may be going through the same thing that you’re going through.