We all have things that we need to work on. But this past weekend it was brought to my attention that what I thought that I was getting over I’m not. I have always been insecure about how I look and dress. Not gonna lie I have been a tomboy all my life, but I do like to dress up and get cute. But my fashion sense sucks big time. I got my hair cut this weekend and I felt amazing, but not everyone shared in my joy, and that hurt. I have never thought that I was ugly but yes I am cute. But when you have someone who doesn’t make you feel beautiful or even make you feel attractive well that can be painful. I always want to feel comfortable in my skin and feel secure. But there are times when people make comments that they should keep to themselves. So many times people don’t realize that what they think is helpful is harmful. You have no idea how it can affect someone. People usually don’t think before they comment and people should. I felt so crushed this weekend. And I still do, because I shouldn’t ever let anyone bring me down regardless of how they feel. I have insecurities just like anyone else and when you know that this someone’s weak spot you should never take it upon yourself to attack them there. I’m still working on myself and I feel like now I have a long way to go to get back to how I use to feel about myself. I’m learning that you should never be okay with how someone talks to you. Lesson learned this weekend.