This year has been a huge up-and-down with my marriage. I feel like things are going well one minute and the next minute I’m like why am I in this. I thought last year was hard, but this year seems never ending. I honestly feel like I’m in a cycle of what now. I feel like I can’t do anything right and when I voice my opinion at times I don’t feel heard. I feel like I’m drowning. There have been times when I have felt like giving up. Like what is the point in all of this. I don’t quit and I know a lot of couples are feeling this way. But this funk feels never ending. Where is the light at the end of the tunnel? Where is the aha moment? When will it ever get better? I’m exhausted, to say the least. When will it get better. I know that I can only change myself but I feel like I’m sinking with no lifeline.
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So sorry you’re going through this I pray in due season you find a moment of transformation within your marriage
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Amen!. I join you in this prayer. 🙏
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I hear so many people say that marriage is hard. I often wonder why? I was married for 7 years ( 24-30) I got out. I would never advise anyone to leave their partner, but I often think like you is it worth the struggles. I hope things get better. 🙏
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Thank you
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❤️🙏
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I’m sorry you’re going through this. Both of you will have to do the work for things to get better. Issues are never one sided. You could be the perfect wife but if he doesn’t work to change, things will stay the same. Have you read any literature on how to have a peaceful family life? If not, there are a lot of bible-based resources I can send you.
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Yes we are doing some things to work on ourselves and each other
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