I love this book because it goes beyond the typical self help books about marriage. You take a quiz at the beginning of this book. And it helps you with the things that you can do for your spouse. The quiz helps you find out what qualities you like in your spouse and how to do more of what they like. In a marriage it’s a give and take and this book has opened my eyes to things that I can do more of in my marriage. It has taught me to speak up more about what I like and want more of.