I’m reading this book and it is so enlightening for me personally. But there is this quote in the book that I want to share with you. ” Meeting you was fate, becoming your friend was a choice, but falling in love with you was beyond my control”. This quote hit me hard because this reminded me of how I felt and feel about my husband. When I really sit back and think about life I understand that when I met my husband was truly fate because I had just gotten out of a relationship that left me broken and not wanting to date or trust men ever again. This was crazy because we worked together on the same team but I didn’t notice him until one day when I looked up from my computer and was like who is this? He was just so different from anybody I had seen. He walked with confidence. We became friends and it felt like we had known each other all of our lives. But falling in love wasn’t in my sights but I did. And I fell hard for him. He was everything that I needed and wanted in my life. Sometimes we don’t really understand or look back to how we fell in love with our spouse/boyfriend/girlfriend. But to be honest when I look back things just all fell in place and it was the easiest and the best friends that I had had in a very long time. We both had dreams and we both wanted the best for one another. We are each other’s biggest cheerleaders. We love to spend time with one another. Even if we are doing nothing we still have fun. I’m learning to have fun in love and truly listen to my spouse. Things are not always easy but I’m learning to do things better. My favorite time with my husband is pillow talk and cuddling. I’m learning to love without judging and to always be understanding of my spouse.