It seems like no matter what you do or how much you are there for someone. You will never be what you thought you are to someone. I love to have a circle of sisters around me, but this year has taught me not everyone is for you. I’m not the spotlight type of female. I don’t do things to get people’s attention. I do things because I care. And I’m seeing that just because you care doesn’t mean that everyone else cares. I always seem to let my guard down when I should have my guard up. This is a mistake that I won’t make again. There is nothing wrong with being there for people but it is something wrong when your there for them and they’re not there for you. You know how much you mean to someone just by what they don’t do or say. Lessons are worth learning and this lesson I have learned the hard way.