I’ve come to realize that I’m my biggest challenge and worry. It doesn’t matter what others think of me, it matters most what I think of myself. I’m in a more healthy space where I see myself in a more positive light. I have always cared about what others thought of me but no more. I know that I’m not perfect and well that’s okay. But at least I’m working to make me better. We can judge others but hardly do we want to work on ourselves. Maybe for some, this should be a new year’s goal. Life is way to short to keep staying the same. Change is good.
Conversations on finding and loving who I am 
Hmmm. Thanks for this reminder!. Valid! 💯
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Amen. I can relate.
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You have a good mindset about thinking positively about yourself and worrying less what others think.
As a Christian, my objective is to please God, not man.
I once had a problem judging others and did now see I had just as many, if not more, flaws than those I had no right to judge unless it was righteous judging to bring them back in line with scriptures. Below scripture was an eye opener for me.
“2 For in the same way you judge others, you will be judged, and with the measure you use, it will be measured to you. 3 “Why do you look at the speck of sawdust in your brother’s eye and pay no attention to the plank in your own eye? 4 How can you say to your brother, ‘Let me take the speck out of your eye,’ when all the time there is a plank in your own eye? 5 You hypocrite, first take the plank out of your own eye, and then you will see clearly to remove the speck from your brother’s eye.”— Matthew 7:2-5
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Thank you so much for this
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You’re welcome
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