Has your spouse ever done anything to wrong you? Of course they have. But I use to be the one who would always bring up my past hurts that my husband has done to me. But in marriage we should not keep any records of wrong. I had to learn that not only forgiveness is important but also that I shouldn’t keep bringing it up. Once we talk about it we should let it go. I’m talking about minor offenses. But keep no record of wrong in your marriage.