What are you looking for?

I don’t know about you but before I started dating someone there was certain qualities that I was looking for. And I realized through out my years, there are people who don’t know what they want in a boyfriend and spouse. Which to me seems crazy, because why would you just be okay excepting anything? Your not going to accept any job, car, food, etc so why except any person to be with? Well here is a list of qualities that I wanted in a boyfriend who might turn into a husband.

  1. He has to have a relationship with God
  2. He has to make me laugh
  3. Has to be a good listener
  4. Cares about family
  5. Someone who dreams
  6. Someone loves going places
  7. Someone who can be faithful
  8. Someone who know’s what they want out of life

My list doesn’t seem all that bad compared to some of my friend’s list. I don’t make any outrageous demands or specifications about height, weight, etc. But you have to know what you want in order to move forward in a relationship. Because if you expect someone to be something that they are not for you then the relationship is doomed from the start. Before you start looking to date or even start seeking a husband make a list of the types of  qualities you want in a person.

 

 

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